Dil bole hadippa :)

A reader must be thinking "whats this all about with the name of a weired hindi movie" .. but trust me nothing better is coming to my mind at this point of time:D .. what really inspired me in this movie to write a blog was a dialogue delivered by the lady actor implying something like "an ordinary girl having a dream to play cricket at national level faces huge resistance from everybody else, citing probable failure and encouragement to play in petty girls' team or so...."..

I was again going through the case study of my own life and a couple of others known.. OK , let do an exercise, try and figure out neighbors , friends , relatives etc who keep on reminding us "what we deserve and how big we can grow or what great we can achieve and be somebody like Kalpana Chawla, Dhirubhai Ambani, Karan Johar , Bernini or Shahrukh Khan !" versus "what we dont deserve and pertinent limitations to grow in life"... we would certainly notice that the second group would be more in number, no offence meant, thats the trend !! I am again fortunate,that I had been always reminded of what I can do - could not stop mentioning my little cousin sister who always had been like a messiah keeping on reminding me what I deserve and what great qualities I possess !!She had always been uplifting me and still does, mentioning the truth that failures all around are never to be related to and she insisted that I am talented, I am powerful and I simply deserve the best ... She was the one who have always highlighted my strengths and encouraged me for all those things which many other discouraged because of failures they've witnessed ... I thank God for such a sister and then of course my parents, husband and rest of the family ...

You know what I feel, Motivation is the key thing we really need , MENTORSHIP is what we yearn for .. for every new venture, for every dream we want to live - small or big. Believer you me, we are and would be faced with tremendous opposing force bagged with negatives all around whenever we try to grow in any arena! But, the question is do we look at the failures and step back or do we get encouraged with the successful mass and step forward !! Surprisingly, the normal human tendency is being skeptical about the failure and keeping away from significant ventures, though we all deserve success if we can really work towards it !! When a girl and a guy fall in love in an inter cast marriage in our society, they face tremendous resistance because of prevailing failures or myths or misconceptions, but the couple who has faith in themselves stick on and they say "oh cummon, we know ourselves better than what you do, and we do trust ourselves more than you outsiders eh!! I wondering why such resistances and objections and negatives exist on earth!Woohoo,and here I get the answer - probably we get exactly what we deserve.God rewards the one who has faith in himself and has the tenacity to fight for an achievement like the toppers in our school - as simple as that! Actually this is certainly not an easy job to fight resistances and be a winner - A Good mentor is essential for that like my sister for me !

The movie had a strong message , a girl who has the faith of playing cricket at a national level will do everything good to reach the national level match to play on the field and be a winner and a coach would be veto power for that ! Whats the big deal ! Anyone can turn out being a winner in every possible venture we take up for his growth !For that, certainly we ought to have faith in ourselves and God, work towards that religiously without any excuses and look at one successful citation if it exists and ignore 100 failures even if they come n try to get us ... i believe if 1 person succeeds in what i intend to do and 10 people have failed in that, that 1 person cant be more intelligent and capable than what I am !!

Winning is a mindset, even failures witness that ... Being a winner is all in the mind ... The dictating spirit is "Cummon , lets do it !"