Marriages are made in Heaven :) ...

I had been talking over phone to my husband's aunt last evening .. the occasion was wishing her on her birthday - the sweet lady is over 65 :) .. after her small sweet complaints that I dont call her and keep no news of the old aunt , she asked me "so how are you guys doing?" ...instantaneously i replied "excellent, life after marriage seems to be the starting of the rocking phase of life, togetherness is a bliss !" ... her immediate response was "God bless you my child, nowadays we get to hear very few such response" ... we both had a laugh over this as aunt is not the first one to be surprised to hear that marriage seems to be a bliss to both of us...

Me and my husband had been courting each other for more than a year most of which was distant n super distant with me out of the country for quite a long time...the date for our wedding was fixed and we were eagerly waiting for that to come ... we had been travelling through wonderlands n weaving dreamz about married life ... ohhh such a thrill it was ... i was counting days there with a 5 n a half hours time lag ...n finally we got married ... dream comes true !!

While we had been going through the courtship period, we had been having a mixed bag of inputs from the gentry around .. people had been saying good and bad things ... the picture thrown was more of a bleak one than a bright sunny one ... married couples hardly sounded way too happy about their marriages , some said marriage is good till u are done with it - then the hardship starts ... some were making the groom the villain wherein the angel boyfriend changes to daemon husband after marriage .. some were complaining about unkept promises ... never to miss the in law syndrome :))) ... poor in laws are always blamed !! so , in a nutshell, the weight age of negative inputs had been more than positive and bright ones :)) The elites seem to challenge the saying "Marriages are made in heaven" !!

hahaha .... i smile at all of them ... coz certainly i m a winner... its proved for me that marriages indeed are made in heaven ... i always used to dream of a family to be married to - a loving husband , extremely loving in laws and an extremely affectionate environment ... God's blessings again to be mentioned and to be thankful to !! All my dreams have come true - A gala marriage with every body's blessing, a series of bright fun filled days and nights, an extremely loving and understanding husband , in laws who are parents in deed and best of friends ... every body's love always spoiling me and what not !!

Guys, married life is a bliss, trust me.. we all just need to stick on to our faith - faith in ourselves, faith in people we love and above all faith in God ..everything you do genuinely is always reciprocated ... i have always ignored the negatives and smiled at people giving negative inputs thinking "Thank God, I am not negative like them".. Certainly there needs to be a level of understanding and acceptance for everything, every relation and every venture.. we all can certainly make our marriages heavenly.. for that first of all, we need to start thinking ourselves as the vital part of the family for the rest of the family to think so..be focused and work on what you want to do and get, and you certainly get it !! Marriage resembles happiness, peace, prosperity, success and growth in all directions - togetherness is beautiful !!

I have not let my beautiful mind to be impacted by ugly thoughts , i did not constrain my colorful eyes to see only black and white , i have never let my dreams to by stolen by others... most importantly,I have never let my faith to be shaken .... Marriage is not a one - two - three days celebration ... its just the beginning of a life time celebration series guys !! Two people being on the same agenda in life doing everything together is sheer fun ... thank God for everything ...

Get married single ones .. n couples , come on , enjoy your togetherness :)).....